Acne Skin Care
I seem have all these problems physically with myself all the time?
It started with lot of pimples and acne problem in my teens, which was really worse. It really degraded my esteem. Then because of the pimples i started having all this pigmentation and scars on my skin, which was also severe. Somehow i went for microdermabrasion and glycolic peels and got rid of all that, and gotta glowing skin back, which i have right now. but after that i started to have scalp acne, which was also worse, i still have it. I even have this big patch of pigmetation on my shoulder, which i dont know from where it came about. It is really disgusting, though i am a pretty girl I cant ever be perfect. Because of this scalp acne i have to have short hair while i used to have nice long hair sometime back. I dont know how to deal with all these problems. Really make me go crazy. I dont even have anyone to share it with, since my mom died ling back and sharing it with friends brings about insecuruites, i dont have any woman close to me. What do i do. Life has really... Additional Details 6 hours ago put in a situation where i cant control anything. Loosing my mom had had severe consequences on me, since i never had anyone to talk to or ahre with growing up, i was always alone. No family memnbers or anything. Almost ostracized from the whole world. I have big dreams which i am not able to realise cause of all this. I have nearly lost all of my friends. Broke up with a guy sometime back. I sometimes feel so helpless cause i just cant have a grip on my situation. Growing i always cried and found myself different from other kids, they were from happy families, i was not. i belong to a broken home and still am. i had to take care of my brother who was 3 when my mom died and i was 10. I still have to my house hold chores while other girls enjoy with their lives. i feel so helpless sometimes. 6 hours ago I also had this woman who used work for us (household chores and all), ahe turned my dad against me, i wasnt able to do anything since i was just growing up. She damaged my growing years even more. I always told my dad about her behaviour but in the end i was to be blamed always. I used to cry my nights out, while other kids were studying. It was really hard. Hoew do i get my life in control. How can God make someone so helpless? I always expected motherly love from people around me, but i never got it ever, never from my dad, neither from any guy in my life. I was always the one to be left alone with no support. but in the end i am to be blamed for everything. What do i do?
Public Comments
- you got cheated out of a childhood and i can appreciate that fact and even though we never meet - i will pray for you. your physical problems should be discussed with your doctor and if he can't help you then go find another. really a female doc would be best for you. you also sound a bit shy. the best way to get around that is to go up to a person and ask a question or make a complimentary remark. this has always worked for me. and if you are being blamed for everything then try and take it as if you are the most independent person you know. i believe you can do this; try and let it go and go forward in your life. You are the best cause you are independent. good luck
- Shake off these events. While you talk about scalping, your insecurities appear far deeper than that. Take heart in what you have accomplished and don't fuss about things you can't resolve. You have proved yourself a brave person and don't give up on it now. Relax, chill out, and focus on the here-and-now along with shaping your future as it should be; not as you fear it will be. Good luck.
- you have had it tough, but you can change all that,first of all you must realise that you are not too blame for any of the negative things that have happened in your life.the reason that you have scalp acne is that it is stress related, and when you get your life sorted it will go, there are also great medications to cure it.i am sorry that your mum died and that you have lost some of your friends, but you can still hold on to your dreams, is there any way that you could find professional help, someone to speak to, and that can advise you , about what course to take, are there any members of your family that you can confide in, please do not cry , god is with you and i know you can not see that right now, but things will get better, so go to your doctor and he will put you in the right direction. god bless
